Sexual violence also includes relationship violence. Relationship violence, as in all forms of sexual violence, is driven by the need for power and control. This need for power and control is often demonstrated by emotional, physical or sexual abuse.
Relationship violence includes any behaviors, statements, gestures, activities, thoughts, feelings or intentions that batterers use to exert coercive power and control over their partners. For an illustrated explanation, see the Power Wheel.
The main tactics of control are:
The most important thing that you can do to help a friend is to first keep yourself safe. It is also important to know resources that will be able to support and assist your friend with specific questions.
For immediate assistance call 911 or Center Against Rape and Domestic Violence Crisis Line 541-754-0110. Or 1-800-927-0197. For questions Mon-Fri 8 a.m. to 5 p.m., Sexual Assault Support Services is also available at 541-737-7604.
Here are some guidelines to assist in supporting a friend in a violent relationship:
If you are a survivor of sexual assault, you may complete an Online Report Form or download an Anonymous Report Form (PDF) at http://oregonstate.edu/sexualassault.
